Will you speak the truth about a Suitor for marriage?

Faatimah bint Qays (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said:
When my ‘iddah ended, I told him – meaning the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) – that Mu’aawiyah ibn Abi Sufyaan and Abu Jahm had proposed marriage to me.
The Messenger of Allaah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said:
“As for Abu Jahm, his stick never leaves his shoulder.
As for Mu’aawiyah, he is very poor and has no wealth.
Marry Usaamah ibn Zayd.”

Narrated by Muslim (1480). 

How many of us hide, things about a person, because I want good for the brother.

Would you like some to marry YOUR daughter, sister, aunty, based on a lie and deception?

The person turns out to be a hypocrite, abuser, druggie, Jahil, Arrogant, Stingy, medically sick, etc…

Allaah says,

وَمَن يُهِنِ ٱللَّهُ فَمَا لَهُ مِن مُّكْرِمٍ

“And whoever Allaah disgraces, none can honour him.”(Al-Hajj 22-18)

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